Toy Guide for Men

Looking to buy a sex toy to spice up your sex life with your partner? Congratulations you have come to the right place. Our handy guide will help steer you towards the best choices on offer, to make sure that your new purchase hits the right spot for both of you.

The first thing to consider is how well you know your woman. Whilst your idea of a good night may be whipping out your newest 4” purple multi vibrating anal probe and shouting “come and get it baby” your girlfriend may well have other ideas.

Generally speaking, producing your mass armour of toys is not recommended for the first date – unless you want the first to also be the last! Take time to get to know your partner before you bring up the subject of toys. Gauge her reaction to see if it is something she may wish to participate in. If your sex life is becoming more and more adventurous then it’s a sure-fire sign that she will probably be up for some additional play. If she’s still getting undressed in the dark then she’s not quite ready to demonstrate in front of you exactly what she can do with a dildo!

Having checked that your partner is happy to play, decide what you want to achieve with your new toy. It’s important to make sure that you both have the same expectations. If you’re thinking of a small butt plug and she brings along a multi speed 9” rabbit then someone is going to be disappointed, jealous or sore! Share your thoughts before hand so there are no surprises.

One more point worth mentioning is that you should NEVER offer to use a toy on your new girlfriend by introducing how much your ex loved it. Despite the hygiene aspects (toys should be scrupulously cleaned following use between partners) the psychological aspects could be devastating to your relationship. Would you want to use an anal probe that her last boyfriend couldn’t get enough of? It is always best to start a new relationship with a new set of toys. That way you can pick what’s best for both of you.

So now you know she’s willing you’re ready to make your choice. Here’s our suggestions for what’s hot:

FOR INCREASING ORGASM INTENSITY

Why not try an anal plug or Thai Beads? Just pop them in and gently remove at the point of climax for a mind blowing sensation - used during sex for centuries in the Orient. Innuendo is a great new anal gel designed to relax the muscles to make this a pleasurable experience for both of you.
Or to keep you going for longer, Rocket Balm - a special blend of natural extracts designed to enhance your sexual performance by heightening sensitivity.

FOR SENSUAL FUN

The Layaspot massager or Natural Contours Superbe are great for an all over body massage and in particular on the erogenous zones. Use with our Be Cuddly Warming Oil to really get the mood going or combine with the edible Kama Sutra Honey Dust with feather for a true feast of the senses!

TO HELP HER CLIMAX

It’s a well known fact that many women need clitoral stimulation to help them achieve orgasm. These little babies will do the work for you:
The DinkyRing, sometimes referred to as a cock ring, is a device that fits around the base of your penis and has a small built in vibrator. The nodules on the ring rub against her clitoris during sex and the tight fitting ring will help to prolong your staying power to ensure maximum pleasure for both of you. The Vibrating Rabbit Cock Ring does a very similar job.

Other clitoral stimulators like the DinkyRabbit or DinkyDolphin are also ideal. Or, if novelty is not for you, the Zing Finger works in the same way.
Tickle Her Pink is purported to increase clitoral stimulation while the added free Tickle Her Nipple will give her a full on tingling experience.

TO IMPROVE TECHNIQUE

Don’t underestimate the power of a good book. Whether you read these together or alone our range of manuals and guides can hone the skills of even the most experienced. Try The Oral Sex Guide for Him to find new ways to please your partner.

FUN FOR TWO

Bullets and eggs are a range of toys that are inserted vaginally and have a wire leading to a remote unit which controls the intensity and speed of the vibrations. The Miyakodori is operated by remote control up to a distance of 20 feet away. You control the remote which sets off the egg for your partner. Lunch with the in-laws will never be the same! Or why not try the VibraExciter which works in the same way as the Miyakadori but is triggered by a receiver linked to her mobile phone. Great if you work away as it adds a totally new dimension to phone sex!

SETTING THE SCENE

If you’re a real softie then set the mood with the delicate scented rose petals from the Bed of Roses Kit or why not try some sensual massage oils. Treat your partner to some bath bombs or, if sharing a bath is your thing, try our soap paints for clean people with dirty minds!

G SPOT HEAVEN

The G spot is the elusive spot about 2” into her vagina that is reputed to be one of the most sensitive areas of a woman. Stimulation of the g spot is purported to result in a deep and intensive orgasm. For vibrating pleasure Fun Factory’s G Swirl or G Twist are designed to hit the spot every time. Why not combine with our Ooooh That’s It! g-spot gel to give her an experience she’ll never forget?

THE CLASS OF GLASS

Whether you like your love hot or cold, the responsive material of these glass dildos will provide you both with a teasing sensation. Can be used vaginally or in anal play for double the fun.