For something different tonight, take inspiration from our top sex tips...
TIP 1
Indulge in some internet sex – but with your partner! Throughout the week send each other emails as if you have only just met. Start describing in more and more detail what you would like to do to each other. Don’t discuss the emails with each other to add to the tension. Arrange a time to meet towards the end of the week and act out those fantasies!
Pink Kitten Hot Tip: Don’t use your email address at work unless you want your saucy antics beamed around the world before you get chance to actually perform them!
TIP 2
Pick your favourite flavoured lube and trickle it on your partner’s inner thigh and pubic area. Starting at the outside, gently lick and suck the lube increasing the speed and intensity. While sucking move your tongue in small circles or you could even try spelling out messages one letter at a time and get your partner to guess what you’re trying to say.
Pink Kitten Hot Tip: For an extra kick why not try a warming lube to get things moving a little quicker but go easy – you’re aiming for an increased sensation not a raging inferno!
TIP 3
Get into the mood by sharing some erotic fiction. Pick one of the Nancy Friday books for detailed descriptions of some hot fantasies. Let the book fall open and then act out the scene on the page as you read.
Pink Kitten Hot Tip: Make sure you pick a theme you’re both happy with – you partner might be in seventh heaven with a two girl threesome but it might not be quite what you had in mind!
TIP 4
Concentrate on romance this week. Light some scented candles to set the mood and indulge in a long hot soak together in the bath. Follow this with a slow massage concentrating on erogenous zones rather than getting straight down to sex.
Follow up with a great bottle of wine and a cuddle in front of the TV.
Pink Kitten Hot Tip: Make sure you blow out the candles before leaving the bathroom otherwise you might ignite flames of a very different kind!
TIP 5
Introduce sex toys into your routine. Use our guides to help you make the right choice.
An ideal first toy is the vibrating cock ring. The tightening of the band is reputed to make him last longer and the vibrating motion combined with the bumpy surface will stimulate her clitoris for an explosive climax for both of you.
Pink Kitten Hot Tip: Remember choosing a toy is something you should do together. Surprising your loved one with a 9" glow in the dark dildo may do more harm then good!
TIP 6
This is the week to give him an erotic massage. Using a massage oil spend time caressing his nipples, earlobes and balls. Keep the strokes firm and slow. Tell him he can’t touch back whilst you’re working. If he can’t do this trying lightly tying his arms with silk ties.
Pink Kitten Hot Tip: Don’t answer the phone for one of your mammoth gossip sessions with you mates in the middle of the session unless you want to leave him stiff in the wrong areas!
TIP 7
Get into corporal punishment. Set some rules at the beginning of the week and agree that whoever breaks them will be punished by being spanked. Break as many as you dare! Use one of the fantastic leather spankers for an erotic experience – the smell of the leather heightens the sensations.
Pink Kitten Hot Tip: remember to use light sensual strokes. The idea is to get turned on not to end up black and blue!
TIP 8
Forget long slow sessions, go for fast and furious. Fit in a quickie wherever you can – try in the shower together in the morning or why not whilst you’re doing the washing up or preparing the dinner. The key is to recapture spontaneity.
Pink Kitten Hot Tip: To avoid skin burns, use plenty of lubrication and if preparing the dinner, watch the oven!
